Friends

Life is short. I know this more than most, having to deal with debilitation from an early age. You’ll never know when health, or opportunity will be taken from you.

Hence, make hay while the sun shines, and create memories with the friends that you have. You might not get the chance to tell them how much you appreciate them. These videos are to celebrate my friends and how we have impacted each other in this earthly journey.

Friendship Videos

Real friendship talks: Important lessons of 2016. Friendship FTW (with Loren Xue)
Jan 12, 2017
Don’t take your precious friends for granted, you’ll never know when you will lose the chance to tell them they are precious. Even when things in your life is shaken down, that which is grounded in Christ stands firm – including friendships.

 

The Problem with Positivity (with Melissa Fann)
Jan 12, 2017
People have tried to tell me to be “more positive” for 25 years. That advice was more harmful to me than helpful because I had real problems that science was limited to help. After a real recovery, I summarize my thoughts: 1) Positivity today tends to be oversimplified. 2) Stop telling people who are really struggling to be more positive. Struggling people tend to have real issues and problems that positivity can’t fix. 3) Instead, spend time to understand and offer tangible help. 4) After 25 years of failed medicine protocols and positivity, my surge in real health occurred in my darkest and most dissonant state (contrary to the positivity movement); when I reached out to Jesus, and prayed for 9 months regularly. My tangible help came this way. I didn’t need positivity, I needed to be saved. I am saved, hence now I am more positive. See the difference?

 

A Singapore Introduction to Orchids! (feat Lydia Syiarial)
Jan 8, 2017

Special thanks to my pal Lydia Syiariel for educating me about orchids! Sorry about the poor audio! I don’t know what happened. I’m in the midst of writing a book. It’s been more than 10 years in the making, but it’s far from finished. Please do support by sharing, commenting and seeing my other writings in the websites below. Do share your own experiences too. God bless!